What is the true beauty of the beautiful half of humanity?
Modern society is very concerned about the "eternal youth." Every woman tries to keep her for as long as possible. But what is the true beauty of the beautiful half of humanity? That's what this article is about ...
- Teacher, tell me how long I have to wait for a miracle? When will it finally happen? Teacher, answer me. How long to wait? When when?
- If you wait, then never.
And only now I realized that happiness comes to those who can NOT wait. Who does not expose the conditions and requirements. Who once gave a call to the universe. And then he just relaxed and lived calmly, in his heart realizing that everything would happen exactly as he asked.
And only now I realized that, like happiness, beauty comes to those who know how to live. Just relax and live, not counting the days and wrinkles that they bring. You just need to relax and live. And everything will be beautiful.
Two years ago, British sociologists conducted an amusing survey. They asked men and women about the components of female beauty.
You will be surprised, but 70% of men said that the main quality to which they pay attention in a woman is self-confidence. It is she who makes a woman desirable.
Confidence, you see, comes with age. When you forget about the complexes, stop pushing acne, crying in the bathroom to red eyes. When you accept yourself the way you are. And you, with you, are finally comfortable.
47% of men said that a sense of style was important to them in a woman. It is to him that they pay attention first. And when do we have a style? When we understand that this sweater makes us larger, these trousers are absolutely not suitable here, and it is best to throw on this shawl of delicate color from above, will she emphasize our blush? That's right, a sense of style appears with age.
You can argue with me now, of course. But then quietly, hiding from everyone, look at your old photos. Well, how? Stylish, right? And this funny top under this ridiculous skirt is very cute, right? Nevermind.
I love my wrinkles around the eyes - they remind me how much I laughed in my life. We are made more beautiful with age. And this is not surprising. These are from laughter without reason in the Atlantic Ocean. These - for the joy that my work took in Paris. These - from constant laughter with my husband, it is more fun not to find a person, I am so happy that he is there.
Yes, I would not trade them for anything in the world! And I will never try to get rid of them with anti-aging cream. Because it is they who make me beautiful. Do not hide your school photos, we will rummage in them. Personally, I can not look at them without laughter. God, is it really me? What is it with me? I look like a wet puppy there. But not on the present exactly.
Let's analyze further by chronology. At university, I also looked a little weird. Who said that this haircut is for me? Yes, she made my head look like a pot. I'm laughing now. Because today I am confident in myself.
“Age is just numbers,” my friend likes to repeat, congratulating me on another birthday.
- "Do not worry. These are just numbers. ”
We both laugh. He - because he really did score.He is a man, besides a few years younger than me. I - because age, and the truth, only numbers. Numbers meaningful. Today I can tell you this with confidence.
Now I know that the beauty of each of us flourishes individually. And it manifests itself at different ages. But invariably after a few moments. And as long as you all do not pass them, you will not be beautiful in full.
In any case, always remember - you are still ahead, every year you will be more beautiful and more beautiful, no matter what others tell you or your cosmetologist.
1. Beauty comes after the birth of the first child.
A woman begins to shine from within. It is very difficult to explain, but she seemed to know something strong, unknown, a secret known only to her. This radiance makes it irresistible. Such a woman is usually looked after. And if you have not given birth, it means that everything is ahead of you. You will know it.
2. Beauty comes after a strong disappointment.
Surprised? But I thought about it for a long time. Women who have survived a serious crisis and have recovered from it become profound. They after that on the chaff will not catch it. They will not be silly to giggle like schoolgirls.
They cease to be infantile, which so often pushes men into us. Teenagers, overgrown look silly, agree. A woman with experience always looks mysterious. I want to know her.
3. Beauty comes when you meet your man.
“Oh, Anka, you are so beautiful today! You shine straight, ”a classmate shouted after me when I ran to a meeting with a man I was madly in love with. And he loved me. And this feeling gave me inner radiance. I became more confident in myself.
I realized that I like a man to whom everyone pays attention. I was happy. So, beautiful. The right men help us out of the cocoon. With a loving man, we always make an order of magnitude more beautiful.
4. Beauty comes when we begin to love ourselves.
It is to love. Do not indulge, do not lisp, do not justify, do not rush with you. Namely love. It is very difficult. Young girls can not do it in full measure. This skill comes with age. Perhaps this is the most important knowledge in the life of a woman. He must learn.
Listen to yourself, highlight your strengths and do not push out the weak.If you are sad, do not run to cry to a friend, and sit at home. If you're happy with yourself, don't brag on every corner. The power of self-love is very individual. But it is extremely necessary for us. Without it, we will never be happy.
5. Beauty comes when a woman becomes calm.
Look at the pictures of Monica Belucci. What she is calm and self-sufficient. She wants to admire and admire. Beauty does not like tantrums. It is good that we experience them in our youth. It’s good that with age we can finally control our emotions. Calm, balanced women always look more advantageous. They always attract attention.
Age is just numbers that don't say anything. Ask me if I would like to return ten years ago? Never in my life! I finally learned to get along with me. I learned to love myself. And it gave me confidence.
I love myself today. With my past, which, perhaps, began to appear slightly on my face in the form of wrinkles. With his experience, which, perhaps, it is time to paint in your hair.
But I in no way refuse him. Because it gave me the power to be myself, to be what I am.To be self-sufficient. And by the way, yes, after thirty I was suddenly offered to play for a photo project. And now I finish these lines and run to shoot, yes.
Love yourself, you are beautiful! Love yourself at every age. In each, but every year more and more. Be calm and happy. And remember, age is just numbers that don’t say anything at all.