When you are not the girl he decided to love

First of all, you should know that this is not related to you and how beautiful you are. It is his loss, not yours.
Everyone wants to date someone who could be our husband.

Most people, especially women, start a relationship with the idea of ​​marriage and the creation of a family. Otherwise, it's just a waste of time. Yes, in modern society it is a little inconsistent with the fact that people so easily jump to each other in bed.

But in the end, we all want to meet someone who could be our husband. That is why we allow our heart to open and love.

He was not ready for a serious relationship.

But when everything goes wrong, as you planned, you are shocked. You hoped for "they lived happily ever after," and here ... You ask yourself "What did I do wrong?". Especially when in six months you find out that he was going to marry the one with whom he began dating right after you.

Yes, he probably told you that he was not yet ready for a serious relationship, that he needed time and space. You treated it with respect, but now he marries a girl who he called simply "girlfriend."

You are looking for reasons in yourself

You begin to doubt yourself, what you stand as a man and a woman, in the possibility that you will ever become a wife. You realize that he could be the man you chose to love, but you were not the girl he chose to love, and this awareness can break a person.

But you still have the ability to learn and grow on it. Unfortunately, nothing happened with you, but now you can move towards someone who suits you and your needs more. And if nothing happened with you, there was a reason.

You deserve someone who appreciates you the most.

Whatever you feel about all this now, it is not for you. He is not your half, not the person about whom you read in books and saw in movies. That love is the love you deserve, not the one that makes you suffer.

You deserve someone who values ​​you above all, whose life is focused on making you happy. And you will treat him the same way - and that is what will preserve your relationship.

But this love will come when you will not seek it

No more wasting time to figure out why one man chose not you, but another - it would drive you crazy.It is better to focus on what you want from life, do not belittle yourself and what you are worth, because of someone, at least once put yourself in the first place.

Often, when we are not looking for love, she comes to us. But we must be in a good place emotionally and psychologically. Use this time for healing. When you are ready, think about your relationship and your role in them: if you need to work on something, do it. Do it constructively and leave everything where it should be - in the past.

Do not give him such power over yourself, do not let him break you. Be strong and firm - your life is in your hands.

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