What happened when I found other boxers in her laundry basket

Yes, I found boxers - such, you know, men's underpants - in my laundry basket at my girl's house. Yes, it sounds awful, really awful. But it's not always the way it seems, right?

Let me tell the whole story.

I moved to a girl who has two children, and decided to be a good guy, whom I consider myself, because I spent half a day doing housework. Including, I decided to deal with a bunch of dirty laundry that no one has cleaned since I moved. And now, after a few hours (just kidding, of course), I got to the bottom of the basket.

Sighing with relief, I pulled out the last things: a white T-shirt, a towel and ... men's boxers that were not my size or my favorite brand. The mysterious boxers clearly belonged to another man.
A deep breath, and instead of thinking logically, I ran out of the house, got into the car and drove to the nearest cafe. My head was filled with colorful pictures of possible scenarios of what was happening.

But little by little I returned to common sense.When I returned home an hour later, I put the find back in the trash. And yes, of course I thoroughly washed my hands. Fortunately, my girlfriend returned home shortly after me, and I plucked up the courage to ask her about it.

"Oh, this is my ex-husband"- She explained.

Well, of course! This is her ex-husband! How could I be so stupid? But the conversation did not end there. We discussed for about an hour how and why her ex-husband’s underwear was still in the basket.

Explanation: my girlfriend has two wonderful children with her ex and during their meetings, her ex sometimes spends the night with them for a day or two, so that the children do not have to sleep in a hotel.

It seems smart, but I was still in a rage. She said that it was before we met, she just does not like to wash and did not disassemble the basket for too long.

And yet, my feelings were hurt.

In the end, I came to her from another city to start a new life with a new family. And this little dirty reminder of how close her ex will always be was hard to accept. But it was then that I made my first deliberate decision.

I love this woman and can either trust her or believe that the woman I love is lying.I decided to trust.

Yes, it is very hard to raise children with whom you no longer have a relationship. It is hard to understand for new people in the life of each of the parents. But I understand that we are talking about children.And what is important is what is best for them.

Boxers were thrown out on the same day, and then there were many more meetings between the children and their father, but he never stayed overnight with us.

What I understand from this is that trust is something that must be in a relationship. After the explanations of my girlfriend, she did not say and did nothing that I did not believe her, and our love continues to grow and develop.

Be a man enough to trust your relationship with the woman you chose.


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