Tears are a natural reaction to variouslife factors. Even in infancy, the child begins to actively manifest a "lacrimal reflex", thus urging his mother (father, grandmother, grandfather) to communicate and express love. The kid in this way says that he is cold, you want to eat or he just wants to hear your own voice. But not only children can express their feelings with tears - and an adult person often gives them the will. All people sooner or later have tearfulness, the reasons for which can be different - both from resentment and grief, and from happiness and joy.
The person cries not only because he wants(for example, from viewing a love melodrama or from an incident in the family), but also for physiological reasons. Tears are a manifestation of emotions, a kind of detente for the body. A person after a good "shake-up" (namely, crying), feels much better. According to many psychologists, it is necessary to cry. Tears help to relax and look at life with a new "fresh" look. How often young girls who were thrown by guys, cry in a pillow all day. Note that in the morning they already stand up completely with other thoughts and emotions. If you suppress the output of emotions constantly, the nervous system may be shaken. So sometimes a person simply has to give free rein to tears, so as not to harm his health.
But too much crying is not necessary: constantly crying person not only does not cause pity, but also irritates others. In this case, tearfulness, whose causes are completely incomprehensible, is nothing more than a serious illness. Mental health of a person can suffer fairly if endless tears are accompanied by irritability, bad mood and aggression. Such a person must be treated, however trite it may sound, but here a psychologist's course and medication are needed.
Tearfulness, the causes of which are ordinary lifesituation, may not mean that a person is suffering from a mental disorder. Most people, especially women, show this state quite often. Men, in contrast to the fair sex, because of their upbringing can not cry. This behavior is considered wrong, tears prolong life, they are able to restore strength and energy. But since birth, boys have been told that they should not cry, but all their emotions must be controlled. Men who do not cry, are more often exposed to a bad mood, nervousness and apathy. To shed tears, howl, howl, everyone needs to cry, regardless of the age and sex of the person, but only in moderation, and only correctly - quietly, calmly and in exceptional moments.
Excessive emotions can accompany bothadults, and young children. More often than not, a woman becomes especially whiny when she wears a baby under her heart. To cry during pregnancy is quite normal, the hormones of the future mother are constantly in a rushing rhythm, forcing a woman to pour tears for any reason.
But if a normal adult person has eyesconstantly "in a wet place" because of a mental disorder, then this must be fought. A professional psychologist or neuropathologist will help here, and he will answer the exciting question of how to get rid of tearfulness. Usually, treatment is prescribed in the form of sedatives, taking infusions and herbs, normalizing nutrition, and also the patient is tuned to positive emotions. It is necessary to surround yourself with joyful and cheerful emotions, to get rid of negative interference of events or third parties forever. And then tearfulness, the reasons of which come from outside, can leave it for a long time.
A person who does not show emotion is not able to empathize and love. Such a person lacks common sense and is more like a robot.