This is for all single girls who seem to have been waiting for ages,
I know what it is. Wait. Wait for something, at least something. And you are not alone.
I like to think that we, single girls under 30, are bolder. Whether we are in this position, by choice or by circumstances, it may not even matter. Because we are courageous when this is our choice, and we become courageous if that is the case. Bold, because we are independent. Brave, because we can be alone.
Not that those in a relationship are cowards. Not that they had such a depth. Let's be honest, some people really find their halves and live happily ever after, and it’s not their fault that they did it earlier than everyone else.
What do I want to say?No need to sit and wait. It's not worth it.You can learn to draw, write poetry, learn a new language, drive a car. Travel. Collect money for the trip. Read 100 books a year. To be a volunteer. It all depends on your interests.And not because you want to meet someone, but because all this gives your life a meaning.
It all makes you human. Make you meaningful.
So no, you don't need to run after everyone. You can feel that everyone has already been married, except for you, you can feel that everyone has a life, except for you. BUT THIS IS NOT TRUE.
If your basis for life is the “happy” couples that you see on social networks, turn off the Internet. Throw away the phone, the laptop, and then get engaged in what makes your soul sing.
For me, these are my books, favorite movies, my time alone with myself, coffee. No matter what it is for you: your favorite cake, yoga, chess, beloved dog, for the sake of all the saints JUST LIVE. No one should determine that for you happiness and life. Because only you live your life, not them. Stop living life for others.
So maybe it is not only for all the lonely girls here, but also for everyone who is waiting for something. Big breakthrough. Perfect work. The right time.
In the end, you will be happier when you do so many things, instead of just sitting and looking for someone who will come when it is not known when.
And also remember that not all those in a relationship are happy. Sometimes they enter into a relationship because everyone does it. They marry, give birth to children. And then they suddenly look around and realize that they lived for others.