I let the former talk me out of leaving him

I decided to leave after 6 months of relations with my boyfriend, and I was ready to break up with him. I tried to do it, but he persuaded me to stay, and I seriously regret it.
We constantly quarreled over everything.

The last weeks of our relationship were full of quarrels. It all started in different ways, but it always came down to the same thing. I know that this happens to many, but we could not find a solution, because I began to think that it was not worth it.

He asked for a break, and I offered to leave forever.

I didn’t want to take a break, I’m generally against it, so I offered to just break up. He was shocked and insisted that I just need to cool down, and then again calmly talk about everything. I decided that it was reasonable for my decision not to be driven by emotions.

But I was preparing for the end, I knew that it was all over between us.

I do not know what he was doing during those few hours of the “break” when we decided to calm down and then seriously talk, but I was preparing my farewell speech. I wanted him to know that we always quarreled, because in reality we are incompatible. We have different ideas about the future, and I wanted to end everything earlier so that it would not hurt so much.I planned everything, as I lead our conversation, I knew that it would be difficult, because I really liked him.

And he literally began to cry.

I was emotional, but I was surprised that he, too! I thought he would agree with me, but he began by saying that he loves me very much and wants us to succeed. He even said that he had been looking for a family counselor for the last few hours so that we could decide everything as adults.

But this is not my man.

Previously, he never offered to contact a family psychologist. It touched me, and I agreed to give us another chance.

I was really optimistic ... the next few days.

Then he began to annoy me again because he thought that he knew everything better than anyone. I tried to contain my irritation, but ...

He did not keep one of his promises.

After a couple of meetings with a psychologist, he said that maybe it was not necessary at all. Maybe we can solve everything ourselves. Like, you just need to be honest with each other. He said this, and I felt my heart getting harder and harder. He simply “threw up” me and really did not want to correct our relationship.

There was no solution.

Although I wanted everything to be resolved in some magical way, we continued to quarrel. It was all the same old quarrel. Solid stress, anger and emotional exhaustion. I let this relationship kill me again and again.

I felt like an idiot for letting him persuade me to stay.

Because I was hoping that we can still be happy. That both of us can change, become kinder to each other, but this did not happen.

I broke up with him on the phone.

It sounded harsh, but I said that I wanted to finally break up once and for all. I felt that I had no choice but to part on the phone, because if I met him, he would turn on his charm and love again to keep me. I could no longer bear it.

Love alone was not enough.

Yes, we loved each other, but this was not enough to create a happy relationship. Leaving him was one of the best decisions in my life, because instead of killing myself, I gave myself a new chance in life. I decided that it was better to be alone than with the wrong person.

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