Life is so arranged that it is absolutely not enough just to like each other or even just to love each other. In order to be together for a long time or even live a lifetime, something more is needed, namely, some efforts and efforts.
To maintain relationships, you need to invest in them and, sadly and unfairly, but mostly to a woman. It depends on her efforts and desire to be with this or that man, whether they will be together and how long this relationship will last. So what should you do if you want to keep your man?
1. Create a family.This means not just putting a stamp in your passport and starting living under the same roof, spending the total budget. This means creating an appropriate family atmosphere in the house. Confidential, cozy, comfortable. Create an atmosphere that customizes to. The family can not be without children. A woman needs to give birth, grow and educate. One, two, five. Investing your love, soul, care, attention, knowledge you need in every child.A woman needs to create a real family in which there will be a homely, cozy and beautiful hearth, wonderful children, a wonderful atmosphere and she, self-sufficient, realized, but at home “does not shine”. In general, such a wife and an atmosphere that every man dreams of.
2. Look great.In fact, neither the age, nor the “brood” of children, nor any diseases - are not an excuse for female nonsexuality, the presence of obviously extra kilos, a battered appearance, and even a peeling manicure. A woman can not afford to be sloppy in society or in the house. She should be not only her man, she should be his ornament. And if a man is rich and successful, he has every right to live with a beautiful, well-groomed, slim, sexy woman. Not less. Therefore, if a woman is interested in living with a beautiful, rich, successful man, she will have to take as a rule daily care of herself. Looking good will be her duty as well as taking care of children and solving everyday issues.
3. To be able to self-realize and (or) to engage in their own development.To keep a man and keep the family, a woman is not enough to be just a beautiful keeper of the hearth.Infinitely loving and supporting her man in all his endeavors, she still needs to be able not to dissolve in him without a trace, and for this, you definitely need to start doing something, even if she doesn't need money. You can go to work in the profession, do charity or social activities, or start helping your man. Even many years later. They should have common topics for conversation, not related to life, children and relatives.
4. Save love, mutual understanding, trust, respect.It is even harder to do than after the age of 40 to look young and beautiful. But for this, first of all, you need to accept and choose your man. Accept it for what it is, and choose it once and for all, or after some time, discovering the new facets of your and his talent, abilities and characteristics of character and behavior, choose it again and again. How we accept and choose our children and parents. Whatever happens, never get personal and insult or humiliate your man. Even what was said in the heat of passion, in the heat of the moment, will be remembered forever. Trust your man, no matter what anyone says.Trust even more if you do not feel the strength to leave him, if you learn something unpleasant. If he changes physically and can not change, but just learn not to think about it. Life is long, and no one is immune from hobbies. Learn to understand and support your man, always be on his side and never wonder whether he will appreciate it or not. Remember that all this you do in the first place for yourself, and not for someone to appreciate and praise you. You love, care, respect and trust only because you want it.
5. Do not neglect sex.Of course, after 20 years of living together, the passion between the partners is no longer the same as it was at the very beginning of the relationship. But it is good. Rarely passionate sex is of high quality, rather clumsy, crumpled and traumatic, because emotions are overwhelmed and there are not enough physical abilities to express them fully. Sex with a loved, loved one does not look like wild horse racing, but pleasure is guaranteed. Of course, due to age-related changes in the body of a man, a woman will have to resort to various kinds of toys and stimulations, but this can not affect the sensations at all, rather the opposite. In addition, during the day, do not forget about tactile contact.Kisses, hugs, strokes - all this should be every day,.