Lord men, well, you know how mysterious and incomprehensible women are sometimes? Like what we say and what we mean seems like two completely different things? How does it sometimes seem like we speak different languages?
Here is the simplest survival crib for women (yes, everything is really that simple):
1. When your girl comes home after a hard day and expresses negative emotions, just say "Everything will be fine."
No more words are needed. We love you for trying to be Superman and solving everything that we don’t, but we don’t want you to do everything for us. Just say, “Everything will be fine,” even if it may not be so. This simple phrase will show that you are listening, accepting, loving and supporting us in the deepest sense of the word.
2. When a quarrel or misunderstanding arises, the quickest way to solve everything is to say “Sorry”.
You do not even need to explain why you apologize.And this does not mean that you are wrong, but she is right. When you say “Sorry”, it shows her that your relationship is more important to you than the subject matter. This shows your desire to work in a team and move on. I promise that this will bring you both back to feelings of love and understanding faster than anything else. If you need to discuss this issue more seriously - well, but only when negative emotions subside. It is better to say "Sorry" earlier than late, so as not to escalate the situation.
3. Bonus points are awarded to you every time you hug her (at the time of 1 and 2 points, and in all other cases).
When you hug us with your strong loving hands, everything in the world falls into place. We feel your love on the physical and energy levels, compared to which any words fade.
Say "Everything will be fine" and "Sorry" - in fact, a variation of the words "I love you." That's all. The riddle is solved.