8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

Adolescence is a real test for young people, during which personality and values ​​are formed. In order to help a teenager to survive this period with dignity and take a lot of useful lessons, Andrei Kurpatov, a psychotherapist, a writer, an active columnist for many publications, has defined the golden rules of life for himself. These rules can help parents talk about life with a teenager.
1. It is not necessary to shift the responsibility for what is happening in your life, to other people.
Of course, many people do this, but this does not make them stronger. Only when a person realizes that it is he who is responsible for his actions and decisions, only then can you call yourself a successful person. This point is very important to discuss in a conversation with a teenager. Neither mom nor dad will be responsible for the actions of the offspring.


2. Humble that the past cannot be returned, cannot be changed.
Only the future can we change.A teenager must understand that he is shaping his future with his actions. From what he does in each particular minute depends on how his life will be.

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3. Do not build illusions: you can not change other people.
Do not think that you can re-educate another person. People change only the circumstances, everything else is just a deception of perception. Tell your teen to let people be different.
4. We do not need people weak.
If you think that you can allow yourself to be weak and suffer, tired, unhappy, you are mistaken. We need each other strong, no matter what. This quality needs to be learned.

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5. Every decision has a consequence.
In adolescence, children rarely think about the consequences, so they need to explain that before you do any nonsense, you should think about what this can lead to. Only then such nonsense in your life will be much less.
6. Do not live as if you will live forever.
It's no secret that we will live forever. At his hour, each of us will die.But this does not mean that because of this it is necessary to suffer and suffer. Remember wisdom: do not live as if you will live forever; do not live like dying to you tomorrow. This is the secret of a happy life.

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7. Do what you internally consider important.
First, analyze what you like and what kind of work you would like to do. Here it is important to help the teenager so that he feels that it is important for him and that he paid the most attention.
8. Do not waste time on those to whom you are indifferent.
Life is short, so you should not spend time on those who do not see with you their future and do not help in personal development.

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    8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

    8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

    8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

    8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

    8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

    8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

    8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

    8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

    8 things to tell a teen about a relationship

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