Such relationships are called toxic, but the fact is that we ourselves can overlook this. We are not aware that a person depletes us energetically and emotionally, especially if he does it carefully, with the skill of a manipulator and an energy vampire.
1. A person with whom you can not not be friends.
When you get to the point that you maintain a relationship, because it is inconvenient for you to break them, you must understand that you are not sorry for a person, you just want to seem good.
2. A person who does not take responsibility.
This is a person who always complains about something, but does not follow any advice, does not seek a solution to the problem, does not want to be responsible for his own reality at all. Such people prefer to remain in their negativity, and all their relationships are complaints, gossip, etc.
3. A person who is intentionally helpless.
This is a man who is so afraid of losing friends, that he is feeling helpless, so that others feel that they cannot leave him. Or maybe he just survived too much pain in his life, because he stopped trying to change something, surrendering into the hands of fate. In any case, this type makes you responsible for his emotional burden.
four.A person who cannot bear the pain of other people.
This person is angry if you do not agree with him, say that his behavior upsets you, or you become upset when he does not want this. Such people are unpredictable and often make you feel that if you are not always happy, you will ruin them all day.
5. A person who does not tolerate the happiness of other people.
This man is the lawyer of evil. He does not know how to celebrate your victories, he immediately notices that he is not. He cannot transfer your happiness or success, therefore he adjusts you to the negative.
6. The person who makes you deserve his love.
He makes you feel like you're not good enough for him. He wants to be with you, but he is not ready. He will ignore you, you will feel his conviction for banal things - how many friends do you have or what kind of music do you listen to. Such a person wants others to feel unimportant in order to rise at their expense. And you think you need to earn his approval and love.
7. A person whom your very intuition tells you to avoid.
When he calls, you do not want to answer.When you know that you should meet soon, you want to escape. You have no logical reason why you do not want to see this person, but something inside you keeps you from it. But these people still come up to you, and that's when toxicity begins. They take your energy, which you may not even be aware of.