1. He loves you for you.
One of the most important qualities of your future husband is that he should love you for who you are. He must understand that you are not perfect, and you must make sure that he knows this.
2. You have fun with him.
He should not be a first-class humorist, but you should have fun together, you should have a similar sense of humor. This is useful not only when it is boring, but also when it is difficult: a positive approach will always help not to lose heart. In addition, the common fun moments bring together.
3. He treats others with kindness.
The way he treats you is important, but the way he treats others is equally important. Whether a clumsy waiter or a boring grandmother in the queue. The man you are supposed to marry must be a good person, with or without you.
4. You can talk about everything.
With this person you should feel so comfortable and safe that you can tell him everything.
5. You respect each other.
In addition to love and attraction, you should have respect for each other. You must respect him as a person, abstracting from your feelings. And he should respect you and not detract from your opinion and efforts.
6. You have the same attitude to sex and romance.
However, this applies to all expectations from your marriage. But, in particular, you should agree on how often you will have sex, in what form romance will be present in your relationship, etc.
7. You feel it is him.
Although this feeling is deceptive: we girls tend to think so about almost every guy we fall in love with. But if at the same time he has the above characteristics, if you see that he sees his only One in you, then do not let him go.